Love languages

Like then only got love?

I heard some says if you do not know that person well you are unable to love him/her very well. Then I heard some says, you will only love someone that you like. You can’t love the person you don’t know. There would be enemy that you like too so (your favorite competitors), there are no problem with loving your enemy right?

The main problem is expressing the wrong language of love. There are five stated in Love, Sex and Relationship[a] which is

1.        Words of Affirmation – Spoken words, written cards or letters, emails, compliments

2.        Quality Time – Trips, walks, talking at home, undivided attention, one to one conversations

3.        Gifts – Celebration of special occasions; sentimental gifts; Things you have made

4.        Act of Service – Assistance with chores, kept promises, helping in little ways

5.        Physical Touch – Hugs, sitting close, back rubs, pats on the back

Find out your love language here <click here>

My Test Results:

Percent	Language	Score
17%	Words of Affirmation	5
40%	Quality Time	12
0%	Receiving Gifts	0
30%	Acts of Service	9
13%	Physical Touch	4

How to Interpret Your Profile Score

Your highest score indicates your primary love language. Your second highest score indicates your secondary love language. If two scores are identical, you are bi-lingual(you have two Primary love languages). If the scores of your primary language and your secondary language are close(for example, 10 and 9 respectively), it indicates both are important to you. The highest possible score for any one love language is 12. Having a clear picture of your primary and secondary love languages will explain much of your past behavior. Think back over the past and ask yourself, "What have I most often requested of my spouse?" Chances are your answer will lie within the scope of your primary and secondary love languages. You have been requesting that which would meet your deepest need for emotional love. Your requests, however, might have come across as nagging or criticizing and thus drove your spouse away.

Share you result here so that we can maximising the act of love towards each another. Please comment ^^