Decision 4 Success

I still remember what Dr. Peter Hirsch teach in his 10 secrets for success in his book "Success by Design" I can concluded every secret of success will not go without making a decision to start. The question is when? Every great adventure starts in a first step. I glad that one of my dearest friend had made a decision as well as a commitment to become a more mature Christian. Yet, every journey has its own obstacles and challenge, I do you recall that everything is made possible to those who have faith and because God has already filtered out the impossible from humanity. That comes impossible is nothing and also nothing is impossible. There are always things happening around and everything is possible. But it is impossible to have a success in anything not that until you decided to make the first move. It's a choice!

Like love, do you know it is not emotion? Love is a decision as well as commitment. Its about how much you willing to give rather than receiving. Most people say in a relationship is give and take and its not the full truth, not until both of them fully focus on giving another rather than recieving. Giving means giving freely. But do you lose because you give, not at all. In the eyes of material we see ourselves is the losing party but why don't you see the prosperity of the other that you gave to them, what joy is that when you see that other people blessed by you because you gave, they are happy because of you? That is why this love is sacrifice. We can't interprete the love with business understanding, because love is not investment, you can't expect its benefits in return. However, God sees those who done in secret to bless others, He will bless them with heavenly treasures.

"Funny is that when we make a wrong decision it succeed failure."

and for you, when it is not the time to focus only loving one fully then it is not the time. Focus on the right thing.  I know when we reach the age of 18-35 we desperate to find intimacy and love, which a lot of us confused as lust = love. So make it clear, whenever you do not know what love is and what lust is, you shall not be in a relationship at all (BGR). Can you give your partner a sense of security? or have you explore to know more about yourselves and love yourselves more to give more love to him/her? Confidently I say we shall love ourselves more only then we can reflect that love unto others, including your love interest or your special one.

Therefore I want to repeat a sentence that had been use before:

"DO NOT BECAUSE OF A TREE YOU BURN

AWAY THE WHOLE FOREST."

The tree means you yourselves, your talents, your personal exploration, or even when you have all things explored and mature enough, do not grieve if He/She doesn't meant to be with you because God has prepare a far greater (THE BEST) helper in your life. Be patient and waited joyfully. Amen.

In Love, Thomas >.<